The Mid Life Dating Files 2025

If I could change one thing about myself, which I have two, and the first would be becoming more decisive when choosing the people I allow into my inner circle. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of recognizing red flags early instead of overlooking them. Being intentional about friendships leads to healthier relationships and greater personal peace.

I would also choose a different field of study if I could go back to college. While I loved teaching and valued the time I spent with students, a degree in business and marketing would have aligned more closely with where the world is moving—particularly with the rise of AI, remote work, and digital careers. Education is a rewarding field, but it can be financially limiting, especially for a single parent. Business and marketing would have offered more flexibility, mobility, and earning potential. Still, every step of my path has shaped who I am today, and I carry those lessons forward.